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    So you want to pick up chicks?

    http://www.mysterymethod.com/index.htm

    it's an interesting read at the very least.


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    interesting indeed.
    Not really into the whole 'game' myself...but the same psychology can be applied in a less aggressive fashion...one without alterior motives like getting laid.
    It just gives you an opportunity to create a window where you can get enough attention for her to tell if you're more worth her interest....which in turn creates an opportunity to find out if there's an intriguing mind coupled with the attractive shell.

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    very interesting method, though the motive of getting laid is not my style, objectifies women and makes it seem like men only want sex

    i guess i have used this method before though, not knowing that it's an actual method or anything

    i'm suprised, 81 views and no women commenting on it

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    I checked out his site, and read up on some articles and his methods. All I can say is this is common sense. He just goes through lengthy diagrams and text (maybe for booksmart geeks to understand).

    You need:

    Confidence (not an ego)
    Show interest in other people (not yourself)
    Never take anything somone says personal.
    And when making a compliment, be genuine.

    It doesn't matter what someone looks like. Only how they see themselves.
    "If one advances confidently in the direction of
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    Oh, come on people the mystery method is wearing a big fuzzy hat.

    *** MYSTERY SOLVED ***

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    to get any girl all you have to do is be a dick. they will love you for it
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    To get a girl: Be Nice to us.



    Mystery solved.
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    haha, i used to be nice to women, now it seems the more i make fun of them in front of other people and the more of an ass i am the more girls i seem to hook up with, but maybe im just attracting girls that were neglected by their fathers or something.
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    Quote Originally Posted by fixx
    To get a girl: Be Nice to us.



    Mystery solved.
    I couldnt have said it any better....

    Mollyx

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    Quote Originally Posted by fixx
    To get a girl: Be Nice to us.



    Mystery solved.
    and be genuine...i could teach my fellow man this method...lol...NOw give me 100 bucks...

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    LOL. I love these websites. Otis said it right. Be genuinely nice, confident, and show a girl your interested in her (NOT yourself), badaboom, badabing. Man has been doing this forever, I don't know why it's such a grand mystery now.

    And no, worshipping the ground a girl walks on so you could get into her pants is not genuinely being nice, it's being nice because you think your going to get into her bed. This is how so many guys get stuck in the friend trap. They think they are being nice guys, they aren't, they are just trying to con people when you boil it down to the basic level.

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    Well I worked with an amazing girl for six months, told her the truth of how I felt about her, we are about to have our two year anniversary.

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    It's not all about being nice... Cause nice without confidence dubs you as the friend. Worse position ever...

    And that's not all neccissarily true Black Hawk. Usually the guys trying to get into their pants are the cocky jerks. And they usually succeed. Dunno attracts the confidence mechanism in some women I guess. But nice with confidence you can have nearly anybody.
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    Sorry to debunk the whole theory being cooked up here, but there's more at work then "nice".

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    I will never buy a chick a drink ever again..

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    im always nice to girls but im always seen as a good friend

    im thinking of buying a raised truck, shaving my head, growing a goatee, owhere sunglasses at all times (eve at night), and get meaningless tats all over my arms. thats gotta work


    but seriously im a nice guy to all girls i meet. even the ones i dont like. im old fashioned like that
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    soooo i shouldnt begin every conversation with "how much?'"

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    Hate being the friend. Not that I'm trying to go out with the girl. Because really Ive only wanted to go out with a few ladies, none of them thought of me as a friend but oh well. It's just that when you're the friend you listen to all of the MEANINGLESS crap about, "AWW MY BOYFRIEND DOESN'T LOOK AT ME HOW HE USE TO." And MY GOD I hate it when they break up. I mean they're freakin 14, don't know crap about life and they're whining over some retarded horny can't even get the water out of his cum 14 year old. Sheesh so stupid.
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    Insane, you can buy me a drink anytime...

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    Quote Originally Posted by Molly
    I couldnt have said it any better....

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    man being nice to women im sorry to say is BS. I mean yes i think being nice to a woman is essential if you are dating one seriously but if u want ass, treating them like shit usually works its funny but true. im just that way because in my opinion most women are whores. not because one has ever cheated on me, but just from all the ones i know and talk to around the ages of 18-21 but thats just my opinion.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Presence
    Well I worked with an amazing girl for six months, told her the truth of how I felt about her, we are about to have our two year anniversary.

    So you want to pick up chicks?
    is that your CHICK?! She's hawt! if you dont mind me saying haha.

    anyway here is a shocker ---i never had a GF HAHAHA . kill me now.
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    Women only want guys with good skills. You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skills...
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    In my experience, being nice by itself just makes you a friend. However, if you're nice, cocky and flirtatious, that gets results.

    However, Molly is lovely, so I may just agree with her.
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    Women only want guys with good skills. You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skill...
    LoL. Can you draw me a lyger?
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    Quote Originally Posted by Exo
    Women only want guys with good skills. You know, like nunchuck skills, bowhunting skills, computer hacking skill...
    It's true, my mandolin playing landed me my current GF!

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    To get a girl: Be Nice to us.
    Mystery solved.
    As in the wise words of my friend "It depends on what you want". What are you looking for? What kind of a relationship and what kind of girl? Being an ass will attract one type, being nice another. In the end it depends on what you want. I guess just be yourself and you'll attract the right type for you.

    Personally I like a person that treats me like an equal. I don't really go for all that romantic/princess stuff (flowers, jewels, fancy dinners... bleh!) but if a guy starts to be an ass with me I'll tell him to take a hike. Most views are like this: either a girl is a / or she's a madonna/princess (the gutter/pedestal complex) but never an equal.

    It's this whole sexual segregation thing that. I vote for same sex showerstalls!!! YEah!
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    Quote Originally Posted by fixx
    To get a girl: Be Nice to us.

    The last time I tried this, the girl gave me all sorts of excuses from "You misread the signs" to "Its my personal life and I don't have to tell you anything"....riiiiiiight....


    Its always the men's fault Needless to say I've not been in contact with her since she said that. Maybe I should send her a Christmas E-card
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    My method boils down to:

    1. martini in hand (bombay gin ONLY, never lesser substitues)
    2. a lil' bit of swaggering (as if you were the god Pan)
    3. a warm smile and interest in what she says.

    actually you can do away with number one.... but 2 and 3 are crucial... i got over the "friend" thing after i started making my intentions clear from the get-go.

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    Quote Originally Posted by LaPalida
    or she's a madonna/princess (the gutter/pedestal complex) but never an equal.
    I disagree completely. wooing a woman does not make her less or more then equal.


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