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    Red face Would you say yes to first date sex?

    People are dating left and right, party all night long getting to know new people. But do you think they are really into serious relationship or they just want to have fun and it's all about sex. I've been dating a lot since I was in college but I don't usually say yes. In my own opinion, it's a big turn off. Not that I don't like it nor I'm not good in bed. It's just that I don't like the impression that I am easy to get. For others, they consider it as one way to test the compatibility. But how safe is this? I'm sure not all of us would like to take the risk of having STD or something. How far are you willing to go on your first date?


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    Where is the spam link? After reading this, I'm having difficulty believing there is no link trying to sell penis and/or vagina enlargement pills.

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    I think it's different from a male perspective, but if the girl was initiating/into it then sure. I don't see why it's a taboo, really. I'd certainly call again. It wouldn't be like a one night stand.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dusty View Post
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    So do those uh...exist?

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    Quote Originally Posted by Jasper_ View Post
    So do those uh...exist?
    Well it would be to accommodate the enlarged penises that the men get from taking their respective pills, of course. Keep up, here!


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    Quote Originally Posted by gnodbbd View Post
    People are dating left and right, party all night long getting to know new people. But do you think they are really into serious relationship or they just want to have fun and it's all about sex. I've been dating a lot since I was in college but I don't usually say yes. In my own opinion, it's a big turn off. Not that I don't like it nor I'm not good in bed. It's just that I don't like the impression that I am easy to get. For others, they consider it as one way to test the compatibility. But how safe is this? I'm sure not all of us would like to take the risk of having STD or something. How far are you willing to go on your first date?
    Depends on who is asking, Roseanne Barr or Megan Fox (Oh and just for the record I know I have zero chance of scoring with either of them)

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    Call me old fashioned, but sex on a first date is BEYOND tacky.
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    Depends of moment, and connection with that person. Sometimes click on a first date

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    Quote Originally Posted by sanya View Post
    Call me old fashioned, but sex on a first date is BEYOND tacky.
    Depends how old fashioned; 60's, 70's old fashioned people were having sex in the first hour they met.

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    Yaaah baby! Why even wait for the first date?

    For that matter, why even wait for a girl?

    By the way, great first post, gnodbbd - or should I say - SPAMBOT!
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    Hmm, interesting choice of topic for your first post here...
    and I wouldn't. I would feel like they were more interested in having sex than a real relationship if they're already asking on the first date.

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    depends on the situation, as you specify "date"
    in reality it could be someone youve known and wanted to date for a long time and it just happens...

    but in the dating perspective if its the first time we've met then no, not into sex on the first date.

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    Uhhh...I would have secks with anything ATM (regardless of a date or not). Right now my cat is the victim of my rage.

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    It took me two weeks to pull up the nerve to kiss my girlfriend for the first time, so I don't imagine sex on a first date would ever work.

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    Quote Originally Posted by jacobanderson View Post
    It took me two weeks to pull up the nerve to kiss my girlfriend for the first time, so I don't imagine sex on a first date would ever work.

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    Then what made her your girlfriend?

    Take mind that the subject of some "first dates" actually IS sex. Those are rare cases of course, or for whatever reason are taken to be something different than a "normal" date.

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    In my opinion it's kind of like knowing when to pace some action shots in a film. Michael Bay explodes something every five minutes, and while initially exciting it loses it's punch very quickly. You also know the anticipation to that moment where the explosion actually happens builds the excitement and makes it more valuable.

    The same can be said about sex. I mean if you build up to it knowing that it's something rare and exciting then you'll probably have more fun with it and it will feel more special and will strengthen the bond between you and that special someone, as opposed to having it every ten minutes with every person you found attractive.

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    Sex on a first date, no. But I could on the second date. If he can keep his hands off my pants on the 3'rd date, he might just be a keeper. My first boyfriend only wanted me for sex, so I kind of use it as a test once I feel comfortable with the guy, but not attached enough to get hurt if I have to leave him.

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    If by date you mean drunkenly bumping into someone you fancy in a club and then hooking up then...yes.

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    Nah, in my experience the girls who did first date bangs were kind of gibbled in the head. (No offense to girls who can hook up with guys and are still nice, productive members of society. This is just within my circle of people)
    Call me old fashioned too but I just like to know the guy I'm risking pregnancy and disease with a little before hopping into bed with him.

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    The lack of building solid foundations in art and love is really prevalent in todays society.
    Makes for weak love, and even worse, weak art.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Hogwash View Post
    The lack of building solid foundations in art and love is really prevalent in todays society.
    Makes for weak love, and even worse, weak art.
    Todays society? My grandparents were young during prohibition. The 20's made the 60's look like the 50's. So I don't think this is a new thing.

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    Quote Originally Posted by Dusty View Post
    Where is the spam link? After reading this, I'm having difficulty believing there is no link trying to sell penis and/or vagina enlargement pills.
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    Quote Originally Posted by Hogwash View Post
    Makes for weak love, and even worse, weak art.
    Yes, because throughout history, great artists have always been paragons of moral virtue.

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